when sept. ends

another month has past...it was an interesthing month i guess...

sept. ended wit a bang.."literaly" i mean...i was involve in a car accident on fri which coincidently was the end of the month so yeah..it did end with a bang..hehe...well i was kind of suprise wit my reactions frm the accident..was calm and collected..didnt shout/scold/no profanities...the otre party was kind of freaky tho...kind of gayish and all...not tht i hv anything against gays...so after the accident i abt my business..going to uni to get stuff done...suprisingly others were more workedup with the whole accident thingy than i was... which was kind of suprising to me...but anyway tht person nvr stops suprising me wit her reactions so i guess it was nothing new...

fastforward to dinner time...all 6 of us went to bangsar for some cheap/nice/satisfying banana leaf rice...it was fun..at the end of dinner we sort of sat there talking abt TVshows tht all of us watch during our childhood..it was amusing to see the amount of TV tht we all watch when we were small and innocent...hehe

well after dinner i proceeded to Jln Bandar to do up my police report..i must say to my Aunt's relief..she must hv said finnally he goes..after like 5 phone calls reminding me of wht to write and say...oh well she has the best of intentions i guess so dont complaint too much!!!!...back to my story..went to jln bandar..did my report (which was kind of not a pleasant experience since the sargeant tht was attending to my case sort of like printed all his stuff for the day and with my case he had to like print it all again..whch he grumbled the whole time abt it)...so fastforward again..this time to after dinner drinks..

a couple of my friends decided to go to some pub in bangsar for drinks so i went along...buy the time i got there a couple of them was mildly intoxicated and one of them (which is a begineer level drinker) was complaning abt the LIT..saying it was like cough syrup..which is was...
during this driking session which i had no part of due to the fact i was driving a VIP home, i sort of had my little own dilema...one of my friend ordered like 3 shots of Tequila..now one of my friend (d) decided wit all his wisdom/ingenuity to coax tis VIP i was sending home to try the shot while i was gesturing no behind the scene..well to cut a short story short...here's the dilema i had...
this VIP(a begineer drinker) started to learn the pleasures and pains of visiting Long Island thru hanging out wit my gang which i hv no problem wit..my dilema comes when it suddenly struck me tht i'm the one picking and sending her home (tht is to mean i hv direct contact wit her mum and dad which sort of makes me feel responsible in sending their daughter home in one sober piece)...now as a parent wht would i think of me when u ask ur daughter this
Mum:"where did u go yesterday??"
Daughter:" oh no where..went to uni then dinner then for some drinks with so and so..."
mum:"so wht did u drink?"
D: "oh some cocktail..i think i was Long Island Tea or something"
mum:"hhhmmm "
now wouldnt the mum kind of think "hhhmmm since my daughter started hanging out wit tis bunch of ppl espeacially your truely she's been drinkng more...hhhmmm"....or something along those lines...

it kind of boils down to the following...

am i just being a party pooper??
am i being overly protective??
am i being overly responsible??

shld i loosen up??
shld i trust other ppl's judgement??
shld i just close both eye's and let ppl be??

shld i be the good or the bad guy??